TRUST!!!

                                           

Trust (Having Faith in someone or something) is only as strong as the moral fiber in a person, whether a person is responsible for family, friends or involved in a partnership, if he/she doesn't hold a higher moral standard, betrayal is around the corner! The moral standard (Christ's word and guidance) in society has lowered, so people will fall short of the mark and relationships will become harder and harder, especially if one partner has an addiction or dysfunction (Drugs, porn, sex (promiscuousness ) and etc... The desire to satisfy the addiction always rises to the top of priorities regardless of the level of commitment. Many are unaware they're fighting wars (relationships) using physical techniques against spiritual principalities. This is why relationships are unhealthy or failing and please know! Although relationships face betrayal, forgiveness is the only way to eternal peace! 

The greater an offense, (disrespect or abuse) the greater the bitterness will take root and dry rot the soul! For forgiveness is not a stance of weakness but of strength triumphant over hate. The consequences of betrayal are: sourness bitterness, defensiveness, sarcasm, hatred, vulgar language and dishonorable behavior! One doesn't need to look too far to see hate's venom send multitudes of great and small to prison, keeping them in bondage, physically, mentally and spiritually. Forgiveness is a pillar of freedom because it prevents the rigorous cycle from starting, all over again!
So! Where does one invest their time, love and trust, when their fears of failing are so great. The answer is not in physiology or physiatrist but in Jesus Christ. If Christ is who he said he is, then! Trusting him with every care, hope and everyday living is the prime component to true love, success and happiness. He knows who fits best, he knows who completes and compliments, all this without doubt or worry about how things will end. There's no greater place of trust than in Christ, for his word says in Hebrews 12:2;
(looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, And has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God...) 
So! Imagine him gift wrapping one's future mate in their favor, not for short-term but for eternity!
Like Adam and Eve, God didn't see two separated but both as one, (Unified spiritually), in mind, body and soul and he saw all his promises fulfilled in them. The promises of man/woman's procreation, creativity, leadership, resolve, unity, patience entrepreneurship, artistic, athleticism, care takers & givers, charity, peace makers, righteousness, faithfulness, humility and most of all! The reflection of God's Love and light in a dark world!
If one has exhausted all options, trust Christ, pray (Simply one on one) and I promise! He will not fail and direct you to path of Love, Strength, Wisdom and Righteousness!!!
Be free in Jesus name, Amen!...       
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing!